Saturday, September 17, 2005

bubbles of thoughts..

Have been having surging amounts of talks about after graduation plans with friends lately. It’s time for yet another transition I guess. And I have a strong feeling this time it will be the biggest transition in my life yet. Some friends have set plans for the next few years, some friends are still considering what they want. Me? I’m still in the latter category, hehe. Just that I’m considering who will hire me. :( hehe.

Discussions about careers have also lead to talks about marriage, and the costs of having a family in the future. Could you survive nurturing your career and a relationship at the same time? (When I mean relationship, I mean a not married one..) Lots of changes would happen when one steps into the working world, hence needing immense amounts of tolerance and understanding between the 2 individuals as well. While sipping our starbucks beverages, (where I also bumped into Eric! :)) a friend mentioned the two magic words – MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING. Right. The mutual understanding that the other person is working just as hard as you are to secure a stable future, the TRUST that it is all just for work purposes, with no hidden agenda.

On a lighter note, *yaaaaayyyy* sher is set for Germany! Wish you all the very best and hope you have a blast there yeah! I know you’re not going yet but yeahla, just wishing you first..hehehe. Really wish I could join you though, but things are not as easy as just GO sometimes..hehe. I wanna take up mandarin though during the holidays..or maybe now..we’ll see how it goes.

And what's wrong with our timing huh, either I'm free and you're not, or vice versa. Heh!

and oh yeah, Happy Mooncake and Lantern Festival to everyone!

...back to analysis of exchange rates..

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

OMG chiams! we always have this talks too! and u know what...i think i'm rather afraid of it...like i dunno what i want

kinna like lost between the transition and the feeling's awfullllllll!!!!

~cass* said...

yea i know!! and that was from school to college...now its college to the working world!

sigh* next yr..we are 22!! crap!

s4ints said...

hmm.. Germany.. wut about that?
Can ya fill me in a little?
GOing for holidays or studies?
Either way it's still fun to go so don't stress yourself too much about it.. 8 p

Hey it was nice to see you the other night.. I did see you but wasn't sure.. Won't want to embaress myself.. Hehe..

~cass* said...

Hey...yeah it was nice to see you again.. i actually saw you waay before as well (due to the position i was sitting, hehe) but yeah, lucky you turned around! :)

Anonymous said...

germany's all for relaxation and throwing in a lil of studies as well as meeting up with a friend ;)

teehee..there ya go

s4ints said...

Cass : Hehe.. well I'm always looking around.. Nice crowd at the Curve.. I'm usually there for dinner, books, bread, drawing and coffee..

My eye sight's really bad though.. so if somehow I miss a greeting, do wave at me or something.. hehe.. sigh.. I feel like an old man.. 8 p

Sher : OOoo.. Ic.. Cool..
You speak German? Hehe..
Nice pics btw.. Making me hungry..